Have you any idea on how to keep a woman smiling? Below are some tips on relationship building that men need to know.
Tip #1: Be yourself. Since the beginning of time many men have felt that they were not good enough to attract a sexy, intelligent, beautiful women. So they resorted to deception rather than the truth. They put on an act. But little did those men know that a confident man is indeed the “sexy beast.” Have you noticed that you the number of times you’ve seen an ugly guy with a smoking hot woman? (Think Jay-Z and Beyonce!) This happens so often because she is attractive to the inner confidence he possesses over good looks.
Tip #2: Do the little things. Too often men concentrate on the big items, while appreciated, it is the little things which win a woman’s heart. What is your girl’s favorite candy. Why not buy her some and place it in her handbag with a little post it with a heart drawn on it. Does her car need a wash? If so, volunteer to take it to a car wash and get it detailed for her. Do the unexpected. And do it without expecting something in return. Remember, you are doing this because you love her!
Tip #3: Value her presence in your life. Many times men forget to remind their partner that she is an important part of his life. You need to occasionally remind her that she is special in your life. And that your life would not be the same without her.
Tip #4: Keep your wandering eyes looking forward when you notice an attractive woman. When this happens, the wandering eyes that is, your women oftentimes finds herself thinking you are comparing her to this other women. Biologically women are monogamous by nature and when they find someone their thought is this relationship will last until one of us dies. They are also picking you to be the father of her children. These things are essential for every women, so please respect that. Keep your eyes in the socket and prevent them from wandering!
Tip #5: Have a sense of humor. Here is where men and women are wired differently. Women indicate the #1 trait they look for in a man is a sense of humor, while men feel it is goo looks. So if you want to make your relationship long lasting, make her laugh. (Not just when you step out of a cold shower!!!!)
Tip #6: Seeking common ground. Take an interest in something she likes. Don’t just look for her to like what you life. This demonstrates a level of maturity which many men fail to develop. The immature man only seeks what they want. Don’t be that guy. Developing an appreciation and genuine knowledge of one of her interests will show her that your are something special.
Tip #7. Watch your appearance. So often when people first meet, they put on their best appearance. Bu once you’ve become a couple many men go to pot in terms of their appearance. They let themselves go because I’ve got what I want and I don’t need to do anything more to keep her. How far from the truth. On weekends, because you are not going to work doesn’t mean you can take a vacation from personal grooming. If you do, it just shows her you don’t care. Keep your good appearance at all times.
Tip #8: Become a part of her circle of friends and family. Women need validation that you are the right one from her family and friends. So it is necessary that you cultivate a good relationship with them. If you don’t, expect the negative impressions you’ve given her friends and family to seep into your relationship.
Tip #9. Be careful, she may be hormonal. Unlike men, women are subject to hormonal changes. You got to be sensitive to her hormonal changes and stay clear of any possible blow ups as much as possible. But always remember, it’s hormones.
Tip #10. Open up to new things and new adventures. No one likes a stick in the mud. They are so boring. Instead you should develop some new likes. Don’t just say no to any thing new just because they are new. There is an old saying, variety is the spice of life. Wouldn’t you rather be a spice in her life instead of a buzz kill!!
These tips are important but really they are nothing more than common sense. So please be wary of what you are doing in your relationship. Following these tips will have prevent you from wrecking your relationship and, quite possibly, bring new fire to the two of you!